I watched Blood Diamond years ago, and told my fiance, Jon, at that moment that I never wanted a new diamond. Even if it's conflict free, I decided I'd rather buy used.
While there are plenty of retailers offering conflict free diamonds, the certification process that ensures a diamond is conflict free is somewhat questionable. And the mining process, often open pit mining, destroys the existing ecology of a site. Large amounts of earth are removed in order to expose the diamonds inside them. Surrounding water tables are altered and polluted by the practices. In reputable mines these "waste" piles are supposed to be returned to the site of removal so that vegetation can eventually return to the site, but in some cases the mines are abandoned, with no remediation work done.
Diamond Mines
Even in Canada, with its conflict-free environment, diamond mines have recieved negative marks for exploiting native communities, increasing the pressures on threatened woodland caribou and disturbing traditional hunting grounds so that aboriginal susbsistence hunters are unable to continue feeding themselves as they have for generations. Mining Watch Canada has a host of information that details the negative business and environmental practices of mining companies on Canadian soil and around the world.
When my fiance proposed on Christmas morning, he did it in an appropriately intimate moment, with an inappropriately "new" ring. Dear God, can you blame the boy? He knew I wanted an antique diamond, but was afraid to step into that territory alone. He opted instead for a beautiful, simple, solitare from a reputable chain that he was able to return without hassle if needed. (You know, in case something went wrong.)
While I didn't say no to him, we did return the ring. In our case his mother made my fairytale dreams come true by offering us stones from both her and her mother's rings. (My fiance never told anyone he was even looking at rings.) We took these stones to her jeweler, Nique, in Bellevue, where they are being set into a custom design.
I realise that not everyone has a fairy mother-in-law-to-be offering them diamonds from the family chest, but there are many used and antique options that may be even more wonderful, and less expensive, than what you'll find in new offerings. If considering a used ring I would consider obtaining a independent appraisal from a reputable jeweler.
Used and antique rings are plentiful. In fact, one of my favorite wedding sets ever came from a pawn shop. My friend Genevieve found her wedding set, featuring a gorgeous marquee cut diamond, 13 years ago at a pawn shop. (Man I can't believe she's been married that long!) I'd post a picture but she's been rather slow to get it to me (tsk, tsk) so it might have to wait until our next visit.
I plan to blog more about metals--And to share a photo of the ring!--soon.
-Tanya
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